I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.FOR EXAMPLE: One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don"t feel like it, I just want you to hold me." I said "WHAT??!! What was that?!"So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear... "You"re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man." She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can"t you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?" Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to seep.